To our represetatives in Washington, DC,
Hi! My name is Charlie. As a constituent and a person with a disability, I am requesting the Senator/Congessman support the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act with employment opportunities for people with disabilities.
Centers for Independent Living enable people with disabilities participate in, and contribute to society. Independent Living has been under funded for too many years. There are areas in our state that do not receive Independent Living services.
With this funding Centers can serve more people with disabilities to maximize their independence and economic self-sufficiency. CIL’s play a leading role in helping people with disabilities transition from nursing homes to the community, with significant savings to the state and federal government.
This funding will also allow more people with disabilities the opportunity for employment. This is a smart investment for the country and I strongly encourage you to support the Independent Living program funding included in the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act.
Thank you for your strong support!
Charlie Bean
Friday, January 30, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
Approve A Budget!
Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
Assemblymember Wesley Chesbro
Senator Patricia A. Wiggins
I am writing to urge you to take action to help reach a final budget agreement that will address the ongoing state budget deficit. As you are aware, State Controller John Chiang recently called for immediate action on the part of the Governor and the Legislature to reach a consensus for the current fiscal year and Fiscal Year 2009-2010 and announced that California will face an enormous cash flow deficit that will begin on February 1st of this year.
More specifically, I am concerned about his reports that our State is showing no signs of any economic recovery and that California will face a $346 million cash flow deficit by the end of February and a projected $5.2 billion shortfall by the end of April. This amount may exceed $10 billion by July, which is particularly alarming since we have failed to make progress in meeting the $41.6 billion deficit projected over an 18-month period ending June 2010.
In response, the State Controller is proposing to delay payments for programs and services that are not mandated by the California Constitution, Federal law, or court rulings and may be forced to issue registered warrants in the immediate future. Although he will issue payments for some of these programs, I am concerned about the ways in which the cash flow shortage will impact the state economy, certain programs and services for seniors and people with disabilities, and state agencies that administer programs if the State Controller is obligated to implement his proposed plans.
I understand that the Governor and Members of the Legislature have political and ideological differences that impede a budget agreement, but these differences pale in comparison to the tragic human and economic consequences of continued impasses. Accordingly, I respectfully urge you to do all that you can to help vulnerable populations and our diminishing state economy that threatens the lives and well being of all Californians.
Sincerely,
Assemblymember Wesley Chesbro
Senator Patricia A. Wiggins
I am writing to urge you to take action to help reach a final budget agreement that will address the ongoing state budget deficit. As you are aware, State Controller John Chiang recently called for immediate action on the part of the Governor and the Legislature to reach a consensus for the current fiscal year and Fiscal Year 2009-2010 and announced that California will face an enormous cash flow deficit that will begin on February 1st of this year.
More specifically, I am concerned about his reports that our State is showing no signs of any economic recovery and that California will face a $346 million cash flow deficit by the end of February and a projected $5.2 billion shortfall by the end of April. This amount may exceed $10 billion by July, which is particularly alarming since we have failed to make progress in meeting the $41.6 billion deficit projected over an 18-month period ending June 2010.
In response, the State Controller is proposing to delay payments for programs and services that are not mandated by the California Constitution, Federal law, or court rulings and may be forced to issue registered warrants in the immediate future. Although he will issue payments for some of these programs, I am concerned about the ways in which the cash flow shortage will impact the state economy, certain programs and services for seniors and people with disabilities, and state agencies that administer programs if the State Controller is obligated to implement his proposed plans.
I understand that the Governor and Members of the Legislature have political and ideological differences that impede a budget agreement, but these differences pale in comparison to the tragic human and economic consequences of continued impasses. Accordingly, I respectfully urge you to do all that you can to help vulnerable populations and our diminishing state economy that threatens the lives and well being of all Californians.
Sincerely,
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
House American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009.
To: Mike Thompson, Dianne Feinstein, Barbara Boxer
Please support S.1 and the House American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009. These vital bills will provide desperately needed assistance to states and local governments to protect critical services and benefits to children and adults with disabilities. Many states are now in the process of cutting or eliminating disability services. Many of these actions will put people with disabilities at grave risk.
The pending legislation will help states maintain health and long term supports for Medicaid recipients with disabilities; provide a one time payment of $450 to SSI recipients, the poorest of Americans; give school systems billions of dollars to support special education and early intervention services; support job training through the vocational rehabilitation program; create and renovate low income housing and upgrade the implementation of Social Security programs by reducing the unacceptably long waiting period for eligibility determinations.
It is known that there are many Americans suffering through this prolonged recession. People with disabilities are among the most vulnerable of our citizens that are feeling this pain. Please help right our economy and protect vital services to those in desperate need. Please vote for the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act.
Sincerely,
Please support S.1 and the House American Recovery and Reinvestment Act of 2009. These vital bills will provide desperately needed assistance to states and local governments to protect critical services and benefits to children and adults with disabilities. Many states are now in the process of cutting or eliminating disability services. Many of these actions will put people with disabilities at grave risk.
The pending legislation will help states maintain health and long term supports for Medicaid recipients with disabilities; provide a one time payment of $450 to SSI recipients, the poorest of Americans; give school systems billions of dollars to support special education and early intervention services; support job training through the vocational rehabilitation program; create and renovate low income housing and upgrade the implementation of Social Security programs by reducing the unacceptably long waiting period for eligibility determinations.
It is known that there are many Americans suffering through this prolonged recession. People with disabilities are among the most vulnerable of our citizens that are feeling this pain. Please help right our economy and protect vital services to those in desperate need. Please vote for the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act.
Sincerely,
Monday, January 19, 2009
Humboldt plans for inauguration day
I feel it is a great day to be remembered; one more positive event to look back at in the future.
Many can remember when JFK made his inauguration speech and when he was shot. We also remember the shooting of his brother Robert. As well as Martin Luther King at his motel. (These are just a couple things that quickly come to mind.)
Thinking about these three gives me and I believe, many others hope for opportunties towards equality amongst the various diverse groups we have here in the States. They represented dreams and thoughts of the times which are only now being realized with Obama being elected as our President as one example.
The celebration happening for this event is an opportunity to reflect back on our past, but also to look forward to the possible opportunities that may happen if we believe in hope and work together towards common goals as a community.
We should look back at the past events and build on our mistakes and accomplishments to create a stronger community we have here in Humboldt.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11489438
Many can remember when JFK made his inauguration speech and when he was shot. We also remember the shooting of his brother Robert. As well as Martin Luther King at his motel. (These are just a couple things that quickly come to mind.)
Thinking about these three gives me and I believe, many others hope for opportunties towards equality amongst the various diverse groups we have here in the States. They represented dreams and thoughts of the times which are only now being realized with Obama being elected as our President as one example.
The celebration happening for this event is an opportunity to reflect back on our past, but also to look forward to the possible opportunities that may happen if we believe in hope and work together towards common goals as a community.
We should look back at the past events and build on our mistakes and accomplishments to create a stronger community we have here in Humboldt.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11489438
Sunday, January 18, 2009
More needy, Fewer Resources
They have been running out of resources for assisting the poor, elderly and disabled for many years. And if one thinks about it, just in the past thirty years or so, it has always been the strongest threat to cut services to the poor, elderly and disabled.
I believe that it is a part of our system that has failed many times over. They are using old ideas for guiding the poor out of poverty, assisting the elderly to live out their lives with dignity; and, segregating the disabled from complete participation within society with respect.
Why shouldn't they cut the programs offered to the three groups mentioned?
Many, except for the elderly have probably looked towards being gainfully employed; but what is left without the appropriate education are minimum wage paying positions. And still, there are few of these positions available (Locally opportunitties are lost through recent closures, as well as the blocking of possible opportunities for employment by stores wanting to relocate.).
Instead of cutting funds to help the groups mentioned, why not stop the waste performed by our government: guards watching over parking lots, security systems installed that truely were not needed (At least not until other problems have been addressed), high per diem expenses to government representatices, etc.
Our State is trying to do too much in a big hurry to meet new goals regarding energy and protecting the environment (Important topics, though we may be over doing it in some cases,). Yet, it has forgotten that in meeting these high goals appropriate training and restructuring of our society is needed to include the poor, elderly and disabled.
The poor and disabled need to speak out more about accelerated training to meet future needs of our society. While advocating for additional training, create more partnerships between the organizations to provide services needed.
These organizations providing assistance to the poor, elderly and disabled can not do it alone. Individuals from the groups need to get involved and want to change their situation.
Core family involvement needs to become stronger. Families can no longer state that the government will assist you 100%. The family has to be able to take more responsibility for their siblings, poor or disabled, as well as watching out for the their elders.
We need to work together to reach common goals and get through this time of financial hardship.
http://www.times-standard.com/letters/ci_11478453
I believe that it is a part of our system that has failed many times over. They are using old ideas for guiding the poor out of poverty, assisting the elderly to live out their lives with dignity; and, segregating the disabled from complete participation within society with respect.
Why shouldn't they cut the programs offered to the three groups mentioned?
Many, except for the elderly have probably looked towards being gainfully employed; but what is left without the appropriate education are minimum wage paying positions. And still, there are few of these positions available (Locally opportunitties are lost through recent closures, as well as the blocking of possible opportunities for employment by stores wanting to relocate.).
Instead of cutting funds to help the groups mentioned, why not stop the waste performed by our government: guards watching over parking lots, security systems installed that truely were not needed (At least not until other problems have been addressed), high per diem expenses to government representatices, etc.
Our State is trying to do too much in a big hurry to meet new goals regarding energy and protecting the environment (Important topics, though we may be over doing it in some cases,). Yet, it has forgotten that in meeting these high goals appropriate training and restructuring of our society is needed to include the poor, elderly and disabled.
The poor and disabled need to speak out more about accelerated training to meet future needs of our society. While advocating for additional training, create more partnerships between the organizations to provide services needed.
These organizations providing assistance to the poor, elderly and disabled can not do it alone. Individuals from the groups need to get involved and want to change their situation.
Core family involvement needs to become stronger. Families can no longer state that the government will assist you 100%. The family has to be able to take more responsibility for their siblings, poor or disabled, as well as watching out for the their elders.
We need to work together to reach common goals and get through this time of financial hardship.
http://www.times-standard.com/letters/ci_11478453
MLK Unity March, January 19
Maybe I am wrong, but MLK Day is not representing one race, it is representing many races and classes of people working towards equality throughout our society.
Yes, we may have differences, but the "Unity March" is for promoting common goals amongst people of different beliefs and understanding working together.If you take a look around you (As well as at ourselves), we all have a long ways to go before equality and fair opportunities are afforded to all throughout our community.
The Unity March represents past accomplishments and recognizes work is still needed towards the future for all of us to have equal opportunity without discrimination.
Join the March and show your support for what it represents, not just one group or class, but all celebrating and working for a better community and society.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11484257
"argumentum wrote: You make a good case. One question. Will the words of Bill Cosby encouraging African-Americans to take responsibility for themselves be mentioned during the Unity March or at the event at the Adorni Center?"
I doubt it will be worded as Cosby presented it, but no matter how it is worded, we all need to take responsbility and stop blaming others for our difficulties that cause the misunderstandings.
I read Cosby's recent book "Come On People" and though he targets African-Americans for taking more responsibility, we can all take his advice.
I have the book here, if some one wants to read it.
Yes, we may have differences, but the "Unity March" is for promoting common goals amongst people of different beliefs and understanding working together.If you take a look around you (As well as at ourselves), we all have a long ways to go before equality and fair opportunities are afforded to all throughout our community.
The Unity March represents past accomplishments and recognizes work is still needed towards the future for all of us to have equal opportunity without discrimination.
Join the March and show your support for what it represents, not just one group or class, but all celebrating and working for a better community and society.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11484257
"argumentum wrote: You make a good case. One question. Will the words of Bill Cosby encouraging African-Americans to take responsibility for themselves be mentioned during the Unity March or at the event at the Adorni Center?"
I doubt it will be worded as Cosby presented it, but no matter how it is worded, we all need to take responsbility and stop blaming others for our difficulties that cause the misunderstandings.
I read Cosby's recent book "Come On People" and though he targets African-Americans for taking more responsibility, we can all take his advice.
I have the book here, if some one wants to read it.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Save the CCC
This is just another example of poor management in our government service from the top. They are always speaking of investing tax dollars into programs that develop income back to make-up some of the expense.
The CCC is one of those programs, not only in receiving actual money for the partnerships developed, but for the long-term out-comes many members of the Corps have become.I was listening to my Foster Father once telling a story about the work the CCC's had done around Fish Lake. To me, it was impressive knowing how it was before and is now because of the work done over 50 years ago that we are benefitting from to day.
Our Government Representative should take a step back and reconsider how they do business in serving the needs of the people. As a disabled individual, I see a lot of waste in programs offered and often provide suggestions on how to save money and still provide the same service (Also, some services are more than what is needed.).
Our State, as well as our Federal government needs to reconsider how they do business in providing services. One of the first places to begin is at the top, especially with per diem for our Representatives - 55 cents a mile for use of your private vehicle? We don't get paid this for driving back and forth to work, though we can clasim tax deductions; why not he same for our Representatives.
I hope more write to our Reps to keep the CCC.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11459345
The CCC is one of those programs, not only in receiving actual money for the partnerships developed, but for the long-term out-comes many members of the Corps have become.I was listening to my Foster Father once telling a story about the work the CCC's had done around Fish Lake. To me, it was impressive knowing how it was before and is now because of the work done over 50 years ago that we are benefitting from to day.
Our Government Representative should take a step back and reconsider how they do business in serving the needs of the people. As a disabled individual, I see a lot of waste in programs offered and often provide suggestions on how to save money and still provide the same service (Also, some services are more than what is needed.).
Our State, as well as our Federal government needs to reconsider how they do business in providing services. One of the first places to begin is at the top, especially with per diem for our Representatives - 55 cents a mile for use of your private vehicle? We don't get paid this for driving back and forth to work, though we can clasim tax deductions; why not he same for our Representatives.
I hope more write to our Reps to keep the CCC.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11459345
Thompson Blasts Bush Admin About Drilling
I agree in part that off-shore oil drilling may be a problem and there is the chance of an oil spill leaving a long undetermined list of environmental damage, as well as human health issues.
I feel that oil available to supply our needs for 100 days is not worth the risk to the area's environment or health of the people.I do have a concern with a most recent Bill Thompson has introduced (I believe it is H.R. 204) about banning oil drilling off the northcoast. My concern is the wording of the complete Bill in regards to the development of alternative energy from the ocean in the area (Wave, hydro, etc.).
I have read about more jobs being made available to the local population, but how is this true? I understand that jobs on an oil well platform are specialized. Do we have a population of people here trained to work on a drilling platform? Or, even individuals here willing to?
Most of the workforce will be brought in from the outside, as it was for Pelican Bay in Crescent City. Yes, local businesses benefitted, but by how much in the long run?
I don't believe we should totally ban oil drilling, but I feel we should concentrate more on alternative energy sources that are available or are being developed first. More needs to be done in regards to allowing drilling, we don't know the effects.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11478433
"Fred Mangels wrote: We've been drilling oil, onshore and offshore, for decades, Skippy. We know the effects. We had a big spill off of Santa Barbara decades ago. Yes, it was a mess, but it was cleaned up and the area is thriving now. It has been for sometime. It is considered a prime place to live by many."
You are correct Fred, we do know the effects and the outcome in other areas. But, we should not take these incidents as truth to what will happen in our area.
As mentioned in the news article, there is one of only four upwelling ecosystems in the world. This upwelling brings nutrient rich water from the ocean floor to the surface and is vital to maintaining the fisheries that support the state's $200 million fishing industry. It probably supports much more than the fishing industry, but is not mentioned.
Every part of the world there are different ecosystems (Why are we rich in Coastal Redwoods?) that depends on various needs for life. Should we believe that since it is now okay for Santa Barbara, it will be okay for our area? Is the ecosystem the same in Santa Barbara as it is here?
I am not an environmentalist or a biologist, I just feel we need to know more about how oil drilling will effect our area, with or without an oil spill.
I feel that oil available to supply our needs for 100 days is not worth the risk to the area's environment or health of the people.I do have a concern with a most recent Bill Thompson has introduced (I believe it is H.R. 204) about banning oil drilling off the northcoast. My concern is the wording of the complete Bill in regards to the development of alternative energy from the ocean in the area (Wave, hydro, etc.).
I have read about more jobs being made available to the local population, but how is this true? I understand that jobs on an oil well platform are specialized. Do we have a population of people here trained to work on a drilling platform? Or, even individuals here willing to?
Most of the workforce will be brought in from the outside, as it was for Pelican Bay in Crescent City. Yes, local businesses benefitted, but by how much in the long run?
I don't believe we should totally ban oil drilling, but I feel we should concentrate more on alternative energy sources that are available or are being developed first. More needs to be done in regards to allowing drilling, we don't know the effects.
http://www.times-standard.com/localnews/ci_11478433
"Fred Mangels wrote: We've been drilling oil, onshore and offshore, for decades, Skippy. We know the effects. We had a big spill off of Santa Barbara decades ago. Yes, it was a mess, but it was cleaned up and the area is thriving now. It has been for sometime. It is considered a prime place to live by many."
You are correct Fred, we do know the effects and the outcome in other areas. But, we should not take these incidents as truth to what will happen in our area.
As mentioned in the news article, there is one of only four upwelling ecosystems in the world. This upwelling brings nutrient rich water from the ocean floor to the surface and is vital to maintaining the fisheries that support the state's $200 million fishing industry. It probably supports much more than the fishing industry, but is not mentioned.
Every part of the world there are different ecosystems (Why are we rich in Coastal Redwoods?) that depends on various needs for life. Should we believe that since it is now okay for Santa Barbara, it will be okay for our area? Is the ecosystem the same in Santa Barbara as it is here?
I am not an environmentalist or a biologist, I just feel we need to know more about how oil drilling will effect our area, with or without an oil spill.
Friday, January 16, 2009
Resonses to questions
Sure!
What has been your motivation to become involved in advocacy for disability/accessibility issues? My motivation comes from my past experience working with community activities that provided better opportunities for ALL in the Klamath-Trinity Area. As it relates to the disabled, my advocacy is present to promote a better understanding of the diverse needs of unique individuals that are a valuable part of our society. I personally don't like others making decisions for me without asking "What is it you need?" or, "How can you be helped?" Too many decisions are made for the disabled without including their thoughts. I try to look at the needs from the disabled view, as well as the so-called abled needs, and, from this it creates opportunities for all to work and live together.
In what ways have you been active? Currently I have been active as a member of the County of Humboldt In-Home Supportive Services Advisory Board and some with the Tri-County Independent Living Center (Though I think more needs to be done here.). I also try to attend various public meetings regarding housing; future community development projects such as the Broadway/Hwy. 101 feasibility study being done for safety; attending County Supervisor's meetings when I have the opportunity, especially if a topic has drawn my attention; and most important, I am in the public eye both physically and through letters sharing my thoughts on issues and activities throughout our area, as well as in our State and Federal governments.
If I see there may be a problem or issue towards access, I identify it for reconsideration, both verbally and through letters. It is important to look at things not only from my wheelchair's needs, but as needs of the many first and how the disabled can be included, not segregated as is often done presently
How receptive have various entities been, such as the City Council when you attend meetings to bring up issues? Most have been receptive on the outside, though I often get the feeling that I wasted my time. I also get the feeling "I know what you need already, though I will listen to you your view, my mind is already made up!" This is at many meetings where I am in the audience. I feel HTA and HCAOG needs better representation of the disabled in their meetings and on their Boards. Oh yeah, the Northwest Committee for the Employment of Persons with Disabilities could really use some assistance in getting the word out for those who can think for themselves.
I must admit though that attending the meetings is a positive way of promoting our issues, but there are not enough disabled attending meetings. Being the only one,or maybe having just a couple others is not always beneficial because they don't say anything.
Often working with the staff directly, not the County Supervisors or City Council more is accomplished. I know from experience, I have pointed out problems with access and offered a solution at the same time and the issue was corrected. This is something we as disabled need to remember when addressing a concern about access, and it is to offer a solution.
In what ways do you think people with disabilities in this community can increase their say in city government or county government matters? Be more visible to our representatives and members of society. Because an event is not geared towards disabled only, participate anyhow by getting involved with the coordination and development of the activities (Remember not everything is about our disability.). Volunteering is a start and is needed greatly throughout our different communities. Be sure though, if you say you are going to do something, follow through with it, as well as have a back-up if you are unable to do it. Not everything can be accomplished as we want it to be, but if we live up to our commitments, better impressions towards the disabled will appear. Bottom line, more disabled need to be involved in the community and though we differ in opinions, speak with one voice addressing society as a whole, not just any one particular disability.
What do you think would be a good direction for an Accessibility Advisory group? I have mostly, always felt that any form of government should have a representation of the disabled on their Board. This individual must show their disability because it is often the disability that is most visible as well as segregated from complete involvement in our society (education recreation and employment are a few examples.).
The only direction we can go is up! And in order to go up, we need to improve opportunities for the disabled throughout the various departments of our governments and parts of our society. Saying this, I expect to get the most common response from our Representatives: "We provide all the opportunities you need, but no one has stepped forward to assume them."
This is often true, yet it is also a cop-out. An Advisory group should be providing education and solutions for the betterment of the community and society involving not only the disabled, but the abled as one. It should involve representation of the Council/Staff/non-disabled/Disabled in the group. Our goal should be towards providing solutions to promoting more involvement of the disabled throughout society. Identify interests and positions, not only for employment, but community involvement disabled can fill and are needed by the community that provide respect and dignity for all involved.
You think I answsered these well enough?
What has been your motivation to become involved in advocacy for disability/accessibility issues? My motivation comes from my past experience working with community activities that provided better opportunities for ALL in the Klamath-Trinity Area. As it relates to the disabled, my advocacy is present to promote a better understanding of the diverse needs of unique individuals that are a valuable part of our society. I personally don't like others making decisions for me without asking "What is it you need?" or, "How can you be helped?" Too many decisions are made for the disabled without including their thoughts. I try to look at the needs from the disabled view, as well as the so-called abled needs, and, from this it creates opportunities for all to work and live together.
In what ways have you been active? Currently I have been active as a member of the County of Humboldt In-Home Supportive Services Advisory Board and some with the Tri-County Independent Living Center (Though I think more needs to be done here.). I also try to attend various public meetings regarding housing; future community development projects such as the Broadway/Hwy. 101 feasibility study being done for safety; attending County Supervisor's meetings when I have the opportunity, especially if a topic has drawn my attention; and most important, I am in the public eye both physically and through letters sharing my thoughts on issues and activities throughout our area, as well as in our State and Federal governments.
If I see there may be a problem or issue towards access, I identify it for reconsideration, both verbally and through letters. It is important to look at things not only from my wheelchair's needs, but as needs of the many first and how the disabled can be included, not segregated as is often done presently
How receptive have various entities been, such as the City Council when you attend meetings to bring up issues? Most have been receptive on the outside, though I often get the feeling that I wasted my time. I also get the feeling "I know what you need already, though I will listen to you your view, my mind is already made up!" This is at many meetings where I am in the audience. I feel HTA and HCAOG needs better representation of the disabled in their meetings and on their Boards. Oh yeah, the Northwest Committee for the Employment of Persons with Disabilities could really use some assistance in getting the word out for those who can think for themselves.
I must admit though that attending the meetings is a positive way of promoting our issues, but there are not enough disabled attending meetings. Being the only one,or maybe having just a couple others is not always beneficial because they don't say anything.
Often working with the staff directly, not the County Supervisors or City Council more is accomplished. I know from experience, I have pointed out problems with access and offered a solution at the same time and the issue was corrected. This is something we as disabled need to remember when addressing a concern about access, and it is to offer a solution.
In what ways do you think people with disabilities in this community can increase their say in city government or county government matters? Be more visible to our representatives and members of society. Because an event is not geared towards disabled only, participate anyhow by getting involved with the coordination and development of the activities (Remember not everything is about our disability.). Volunteering is a start and is needed greatly throughout our different communities. Be sure though, if you say you are going to do something, follow through with it, as well as have a back-up if you are unable to do it. Not everything can be accomplished as we want it to be, but if we live up to our commitments, better impressions towards the disabled will appear. Bottom line, more disabled need to be involved in the community and though we differ in opinions, speak with one voice addressing society as a whole, not just any one particular disability.
What do you think would be a good direction for an Accessibility Advisory group? I have mostly, always felt that any form of government should have a representation of the disabled on their Board. This individual must show their disability because it is often the disability that is most visible as well as segregated from complete involvement in our society (education recreation and employment are a few examples.).
The only direction we can go is up! And in order to go up, we need to improve opportunities for the disabled throughout the various departments of our governments and parts of our society. Saying this, I expect to get the most common response from our Representatives: "We provide all the opportunities you need, but no one has stepped forward to assume them."
This is often true, yet it is also a cop-out. An Advisory group should be providing education and solutions for the betterment of the community and society involving not only the disabled, but the abled as one. It should involve representation of the Council/Staff/non-disabled/Disabled in the group. Our goal should be towards providing solutions to promoting more involvement of the disabled throughout society. Identify interests and positions, not only for employment, but community involvement disabled can fill and are needed by the community that provide respect and dignity for all involved.
You think I answsered these well enough?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Over done Mailings
Wes/Patricia,
I just received a pamphlet from the California Department of Health Care Services titled "Your Hearing Rights - A guide to Medi-Cal fair Hearing".
I am one of those that will be hurt from deductions that may happen to the poor, elderly and disabled (Spinal Cord Injury - 34 years), and seeing various forms of waste upsets me. Receiving the above noted pamphlet every three months (2 pamphlets; one for me and one for my daughter) to me is a waste.
Individuals receive notice of their rights every time they visit the county Welfare Office, as well as in the mail and this seems part seems to be in excess of what is actually needed. If the State wants to cut services to the poor, elderly and disabled, they should first look at how they do business. This is just one example.
I hope this service of mailing out the same pamphlet every three months is looked into and stopped in the name of using public funds in ways that are more efficient.
Thank you,
Charlie Bean
I just received a pamphlet from the California Department of Health Care Services titled "Your Hearing Rights - A guide to Medi-Cal fair Hearing".
I am one of those that will be hurt from deductions that may happen to the poor, elderly and disabled (Spinal Cord Injury - 34 years), and seeing various forms of waste upsets me. Receiving the above noted pamphlet every three months (2 pamphlets; one for me and one for my daughter) to me is a waste.
Individuals receive notice of their rights every time they visit the county Welfare Office, as well as in the mail and this seems part seems to be in excess of what is actually needed. If the State wants to cut services to the poor, elderly and disabled, they should first look at how they do business. This is just one example.
I hope this service of mailing out the same pamphlet every three months is looked into and stopped in the name of using public funds in ways that are more efficient.
Thank you,
Charlie Bean
Monday, January 12, 2009
"Opening the Wings of the Sun Through Internet Love"
On March 12, 2002, a company named "HouLei's English School (formally known as 'HouLei')" was visited by reporters of CCTV-10. This is a privately "woman-owned" business located in BaoTou, Kun Area, Inner Mongolia, P.R. China. HouLei's English School has become known outside of China through a pen-pal program started between seven schools located in Humboldt -Trinity Counties of northern California. Through this exchange there has been friendship and culture shared between the students. Two newspapers, called "The Kourier" and "The Hoopa People" serving the eastern communities of Humboldt and western communities of Trinity counties report activities related to some activities surrounding Houlei and her husband.
*Also HouLei and her husband's picture is displayed in a local restaurant called "Laura's" in Hoopa, and can be found in a couple businesses where Charlie frequently visits when in the Willow Creek/Hoopa area communities. What might attract such interests of two individuals from totally different lifestyles and countries? To answer this question, it should be told from the beginning of a young woman's beautiful love story, sharing thoughts and feelings of all those near her...............
I. Unfortunately, an accident broke the first love and dreams of a young middle school teacher.
One day in spring of 2000, a common family's daughter of BaoTou, HouLei, received a letter from her Internet lover. He said, "He would fly to Beijing from San Francisco, California in the early part of June, 2000." It was a great surprise to her family, for the family members did not believe in her Internet "Affair or dream." The Internet was very new to them, as well as for trusting foreigners (not knowing any, but only through heresay); and, it was felt that their daughter was chasing after a love that was not true.
But HouLei, believing in her new Internet friend and distant lover had expected her family's feelings. Even though her family felt different, she never deterred from her faith in the person she had been communicating with, nor her fate in life. She knew from communicating with this individual that believing in fate and trusting others would change her life considerably. This was an opportunity that needed to be trusted and followed through with. No matter what the outcome, good or bad, it was believed to be her destined fate!
Before this time, HouLei's life was simple and closed. The accident several years ago took all her dreams, and also buried her first love. That was in the Spring of 1993, she had just graduated from Inner Mongolian Normal University not more than half year, and was a young flower blossoming into a beautiful young lady.
She went for an outing with her new-found boyfriend who had just been introduced to one-another and known each other for a short time. This outing, in the beginning, was one of her happiest days of her life, they rode horses, walked and enjoyed the green grass of the country. Sharing thoughts and feelings that only two young lovers would know about. After spending the whole day together on a joyful outing with her first love, they drove for home.
Suddenly, they were in a single car accident caused by an unknown malfunction in controlling the vehicle. Instantly, two of the three passengers, including her boyfriend, were killed leaving HouLei alone in the car seriously injured. At the time, HouLei was unaware of the seriousness of her injury, fortunately there was an emergency rescue group at the scene. After being treated it was discovered that she had injured her "Spinal Cord" and would be left as a paraplegic the rest of her life. HouLei with peak and pine face cried her heart out sadly. The 22 year-old HouLei traveled around from hospital to clinic throughout China to find a cure for her paralysis for 3 years, without obvious effects of returning the use of her legs again. In May of 1996, HouLei returned to BaoTou.
Disappointed with all the promises received from so-called experts to heal her paralysis. At this time, it was time to face her future and a serious problem; "How to live the rest of her life?" At first, she learned knitting from her mother, then relating the books to study, invented new designs. Later she learned to make tapestries which were so nice that all the family appreciated them and were happy for her. It was the first time for her to gain any kind of happiness and recognition from working at something after the injury. Then in September, 1996, she opened a fashion shop. Every time there were new beautiful clothes, she would like to try them on first, and then introduce them to the right people. When she saw what was recommended to these individuals look well on them, she would feel very happy and pleased for them. From knitting to selling clothes, everything was fresh for her. Earning a large amount of money was not important, but having something to do that contributed to her life, as well as others was rewarding. In 1997, HouLei entertained the thought, "Why not help children with their English?" Especially since her major was in "Teaching English" at college and she was originally working as an English teacher when injured. She decided to offer and hold an English class.
At first, there were only six children. Communicating with these students, she felt rarely content, the students only paid attention to her teaching and spoken words. Nobody seemed to consider her different from the "so-called abled bodied" person. With this beginning, her teaching became more affective. Through word of mouth, the students increased more and more. Until June of 2000, she had gone from 6 to 200 students. Her income had improved very much, compared to what she had been paid working as a full-time teacher, fashion shop owner, and so forth.
II. Contact on line, making new friends through the unreal world of the Internet.
HouLei's material life was not poor, but the world of her spirit was empty. HouLei always felt she was different from others, such as, taking a walk with others, going out alone to shop or with friends to a film or restaurant. She could only sit in the wheelchair wait for assistance to get around, usually provided by her mother. And very often when they were out, those around her would say, "Why do such people of this kind appear here (Often referencing 'Why do disabled people come out where we have to see them?')?" Before her friends had been more boys than girls, now she had nobody. Yes, there were a couple friends, but not friends for sharing close relationships. Friends that usually visited out of pity. She was eager to communicate with people close to her and contact others to be a part of society. Later she bought a computer to connect with others on-line.When she came home after classes, she sealed herself off from others to the unreal Internet to look for her own world.
The first day, HouLei learned to surf on line. Discovering "Yahoo Clubs" she found a club for "disabled." This provided her an avenue to ask many questions and to accept her own limitations. She wanted to know more about settling her paraplegic situation and how others lived and coped with their lives. Through Internet searches, she came up with over 80,000 web-site addresses regarding spinal cord injuries, individual's lives and general day to day problems and solutions. HouLei, at first could not believe the amount of information available. More than one person could ever read. She decided to pick five individuals from a list provided by a "Yahoo Person Search) with common interests. HouLei chose five individuals to contact; one of them was Charles from California. Through this chance meeting and occasion, HouLei got to know this net friend who calls himself "Charlie." The two of them became quick friends and began to communicate very quickly through the Internet. So, now there was one more friend in HouLei's flat life. Though they could not see each other face to face, they could share their thoughts. Their situations in life were very similar, that is, they were both confined to wheelchairs after an injury. Charlie always enlighten Houlei, he seemed very considerate and humorous. While talking through the Internet, he often joked to her and made up funny topics to talk about. Little by little, they talked congenially. From this time on, besides in her daily so-called real life, Houlei had one more expectation to look forward to: "In that unreal space, on the other side of the world; there was a foreigner friend whose age, older than hers, whose experience more than hers, whose fervency of the life better than hers." What he shared with Houlei, was just like going to school for her. Houlei could learn a lot from him.
Houlei's mood improved after she got the computer and connected on line, also she became more and more convertible. She and Charlie established set times to meet on line, sometimes several times in a day. If there was a day she did not talk to him, it seemed that the life lacked something; and those around her could see this. After a time, it was felt they knew each other as close relatives, and got to know each other more and more. Gradually, Houlei had developed special feelings for Charlie. When the brother knew it, he tried to persuaded her not to care too much. He felt this was a problem for her, "Because things on the Internet were unclear and misleading. If you take this affair too seriously, when you lose it, you will feel a loss. If you do not believe in him from the beginning, and you lose him, you won't be hurt." But Houlei thought, "My life has already been this way, no extravagant hopes for marriage or life. Sure there are a couple of girl-friends, but they only visit once or twice per year. I still nearly live as in a vacuum bag. Only this guy from the Internet talks to me all the time. Even just talking about trivial matters, it brings me warm and intimate feelings, and attracts me to be close to him." In this unreal world Houlei found a release of her feelings, she was tasting true spiritual happiness for the first time since her injury. With this new found happiness she beamed with much satisfaction. Seeing this, her mother asked (with concern for her feelings and desires), "What did Charlie talk to you about?" HouLei answered spoiledly, "You'd better not ask me such things. No matter what, it's something good." Mother could feel her daughter's excitement and cares. And thought to herself in a happy surreptitious way, "She is in another world of her own. A very happy one!"
III. Be head over heels in love��the story which could not happen happened!
One Sunday after Houlei finished communicating with Charlie, she received a very special E-mail. Houlei was very excited to tell her mom shyly, "Charlie proposed to me formally." This was the first person to demonstrate love of any kind for her after the accident. One of Houlei's friends knowing this, realized the matter was getting more serious. She asked, "How much can you trust the sweet words written to you on the Internet? She also advised, "That there are so many people who act as different sexes to play jokes or tease others. You must be sure not to believe too much. He could be unreal. Like many who give themselves a romantic nickname. Who knows if they are male or female?" But Houlei responded with, "There's nothing in my life now, only a computer.
During the day I hold class, think of nothing. But during the night time, it is not a real life that I have to share with the opposite sex my own age as a friend, nor a possible husband. What I feel from him through the Internet has given my life back!" So when Houlei went outside or had contact with others, "She often carried in her heart one person. An individual in a far distant place who cared her, she smiled to herself secretly!" After the time of meeting Charlie on the Internet, since before the accident, expressions of happiness on her face and in her heart were easily seen. She was really in love. During these days, she was very reluctant to leave the Internet, except teaching, She spent most of her time on line everyday. The number of times she typed "Charlie's name each day," could not be counted.
Suddenly one day, the Emails she sent out all disappeared. She tried it the second day, still no messages, the third day, the fourth day..................every day was the same. "Did horrible things have to happen?" Houlei said to herself, "My life will go back to like the past seven years? Or maybe something happened to Charlie?" Everyday she was on pins and needles worrying about Charlie and her future. The family also worried for her, they tried to persuade her, "That alls well, just as in others' words, "people talking through the Internet would disappear after they felt bored. No one would bother another." But Houlei did not give up, eveyday she was at the computer anxiously looking for a message from Charlie. She insisted on turning the computer on at the same time as usual to wait for Charlie's appearence.
On the fifth day, when she turn the computer on, wah! A message which made her so excited showed up. It was from Charlie! He said, "My computer had broke-down and was finally just repaired by a friend." When he saw so many messages from Houlei, he answered back with many E-mails happily! Houlei's heart was set at rest. After the storm of no contact with Charlie, the Hou family returned to normal. One morning, the telephone of Hou family rang. Her mother picked it up, but could not understand the peron on the line. Thinking it was a wrong number, she planned to hang up. Just then, it came to her that HouLei had an American friend through the Internet and called her brother to the phone. What the brother found was, it was really someone speaking English. Houlei hurried to the phone and found it was Charlie. Charlie said, "I remembered your numberand wanted to talk to you. Our time difference is about 15 hours. Here, it is night, and there it is day time, right? I had figured the time difference and thought it was about your time to get up from bed. So I thought I would give you a call." HouLei felt he was a considerate guy. Charlie was afraid that HouLei could not understand his English and spoke very slowly. While talking, Houlei jokingly asked, "Can you sing a song for me?" Charlie then really sang for her, but not very well. However, Houlei felt what he sang was interesting and pleasant to listen to. The telephone broke the quietness of the Hou family. A foreign figure from the other side of the world started to appear in their imagination's. Listening to his voice, he would not look too ugly, Houlei guessed. At the same time, Charlie asked for Houlei's photos. HouLei also shared that her mother wanted photos of him. They exchanged photos and with Charlie's photos, there was a short note:
"Lei, I am watching TV now, but I can not concentrate on it. You are forever in my thoughts and heart. What are you doing now? From when we started to communicate, I have noticed a kind of fresh feeling in my heart. This is the best feeling one can have in the world! It makes me very happy and excited, and sometimes sad. But fills me full of hope for our future. Thank you for staying in my thoughts and heart. You are the most beautiful person ever to touch my heart. Love you always Lei!
Yours forever, Charlie"
Willow Creek, California, USA--Charlie's hometown.
It was October, Charlie and Houlei fell deeper in love.
IV. Romance marriage, respecting the life force which shocked both sides of the ocean.
Charlie thought he should share something with friends, not hide it. Then he went tohis favorite place to socialize, telling his friends that he would be going to China! The friends could not believe it and said, "Right! You are going to China? You can't do that?" Charlie responded with, "Yes, I am. I really love the girl I have been talking about!" Friends stated, "No way! Charlie, it is untrue, you would drop everything you have in America to go to China for an Internet fantasy? Leave your family, friends, that's too crazy!" Charlie said, "I must do this. I must follow my heart." Before leaving, Charlie shared with HouLei the ticket numbers and flight number through Internet -- This is the first scene of this article shown on television. The hero of an Internet love story from America, would go out from the unreal space into a Chinese common family. Because of that, the Hou family had a meeting. It was felt that it was a 50/50 chance that he would come. "We will go to Beijing to meet him. If he does not arrive, we can use the trip as a holiday." For Charlie's arrival, there was much be done. HouLei was always helped by her mother to take care of herself. But Charlie had shared with HouLei about being very independent and the things he did on his own. This made the Hou family take a look at their house and they changed a lot to make things more convenient for a wheelchair to get around. Also, new bedroom furniture was purchased to be used by a person in a chair easier. According to Houlei, "She wanted to change everything from old to new, just like preparing to be a bride and new wife." The whole Hou family was filled with happy longing. On June 4th, 2002, at Beijing Capital Airport, the Hou family waited for the appointed arrival time on their tip-toes with much expectation. While their minds and hearts where filled with thoughts of wonder and expectation, time passed slowly.
At last, the plane expected had arrived! There were many passangers, but there was no Charlie in sight. Worried about this, Houlei tried to ask someone on the plane about her expected guest, "Was there someone in a wheelchair on the plane?" They all said, "They did not notice, so they were unsure. Not sure?" Everyone was anxious now, for someone in a wheelchair should be conspicuous, so they wondered about what does "not sure" mean? They dare not think it over continuely, they all closed their eyes for a moment. Charlie had teased Houlei through the Internet, "May I kiss you?" "No!," HouLei answered, "You can't. This is not Chinese habit." Houlei called to mind and pondered about what Charlie talked to her on the Internet with closing eyes, she expected the words would come true. While waiting with reverence and awe second by second, it made the Hou family mentally and in theirs hearts with torment. While waiting, each of them also imagined a picture of an American in the chair with opened eyes, but the unreal sky was still muddy. Not knowing how much time had past, suddenly an American in a chair appeared slowly and brightened their eyes! When the whole family moved forward to meet him, the words Houlei and Charlie had prepared to say, seemed lost. Only word Charlie said was, "Hello." Houlei's eyes were wet, as if a dream, an unbelievable dream, had come true!" Though the one they planned to meet had already seen, the Hou family had another worry: "Such a big guy, how to serve him? One Houlei was busy enough for everyone. They wondered if they could handle another disabled person in their lives or not?" But after they heard what Charlie had to say, they were all surprised. Charlie said, "Besides coming to China to marry your daughter HouLei, I came to help her become independent." He did not only talk, but also had a plan. "After they got married, they bought a new house immediately and moved to live on their own. They then need not count on the family for everyday assistance." Charlie is just really he said.
After Charlie and Houlei transacted their marriage on June 19th, a reception was held on July 1st, 2000. They moved to their new home within the first year. Before Charlie's coming, Houlei had hoped to be independent, a break from others' taking care of her. To live on her own, but she thought it would be impossible, only a dream. But after they have lived together for around one year, with Charlie's help and "reform", Houlei can really take care of herself.
Because Charlie joined in the classes HouLei teaches, students have increased greatly.
In November, 2000, they set up a private school, "Houlei's English School of Kun Area, Baotou." There are almost 500 students presently and more always looking for new classes to be strated. Houlei has no self-contemptuous feelings for being disabled person. Charlie and she always take walks together through the street themselves, talking and laughing on the way. There are often many people who show respect and praise of their accomplishments. It has filled their hearts with warmth from the sun. Charlie told the reporters, "There is an incogitable power in every disabled individual. As long as you dare to hope, your strength and power could be as big as your dreams. He said, He had applied his personal time and energy to insure the opportunity to contribute to forest fire prevention and work while employed with the USDA, Forest Service. By doing so, it demonstrated to others that 'though there are limitations to what a disabled may do, nothing is impossible." Through contributions of time, many changes have been made to allow access for disabled in many fire camps throughout the United States. Charles' romantic love story and marriage has caused attention by a couple local media sources in is home area. "The Kourier" and "The Hoopa People" newspapers often publish articles about Charlie and Houlei's lives when submitted. Charlie and Houlei are loved by people throughout the Klamath-Trinity Area of Northen California.
There are 7 schools which have exchanged pen pal letters with their school. The purpose of the pen pal letters is to promote friendship and encourage the use of English. This year Charlie has started a new business called "HouLei's Language and Consulting Service Co., Ltd." Through the business it is hoped to encourage more English classes and promote future growth to Baotou economically and socially.
*Also HouLei and her husband's picture is displayed in a local restaurant called "Laura's" in Hoopa, and can be found in a couple businesses where Charlie frequently visits when in the Willow Creek/Hoopa area communities. What might attract such interests of two individuals from totally different lifestyles and countries? To answer this question, it should be told from the beginning of a young woman's beautiful love story, sharing thoughts and feelings of all those near her...............
I. Unfortunately, an accident broke the first love and dreams of a young middle school teacher.
One day in spring of 2000, a common family's daughter of BaoTou, HouLei, received a letter from her Internet lover. He said, "He would fly to Beijing from San Francisco, California in the early part of June, 2000." It was a great surprise to her family, for the family members did not believe in her Internet "Affair or dream." The Internet was very new to them, as well as for trusting foreigners (not knowing any, but only through heresay); and, it was felt that their daughter was chasing after a love that was not true.
But HouLei, believing in her new Internet friend and distant lover had expected her family's feelings. Even though her family felt different, she never deterred from her faith in the person she had been communicating with, nor her fate in life. She knew from communicating with this individual that believing in fate and trusting others would change her life considerably. This was an opportunity that needed to be trusted and followed through with. No matter what the outcome, good or bad, it was believed to be her destined fate!
Before this time, HouLei's life was simple and closed. The accident several years ago took all her dreams, and also buried her first love. That was in the Spring of 1993, she had just graduated from Inner Mongolian Normal University not more than half year, and was a young flower blossoming into a beautiful young lady.
She went for an outing with her new-found boyfriend who had just been introduced to one-another and known each other for a short time. This outing, in the beginning, was one of her happiest days of her life, they rode horses, walked and enjoyed the green grass of the country. Sharing thoughts and feelings that only two young lovers would know about. After spending the whole day together on a joyful outing with her first love, they drove for home.
Suddenly, they were in a single car accident caused by an unknown malfunction in controlling the vehicle. Instantly, two of the three passengers, including her boyfriend, were killed leaving HouLei alone in the car seriously injured. At the time, HouLei was unaware of the seriousness of her injury, fortunately there was an emergency rescue group at the scene. After being treated it was discovered that she had injured her "Spinal Cord" and would be left as a paraplegic the rest of her life. HouLei with peak and pine face cried her heart out sadly. The 22 year-old HouLei traveled around from hospital to clinic throughout China to find a cure for her paralysis for 3 years, without obvious effects of returning the use of her legs again. In May of 1996, HouLei returned to BaoTou.
Disappointed with all the promises received from so-called experts to heal her paralysis. At this time, it was time to face her future and a serious problem; "How to live the rest of her life?" At first, she learned knitting from her mother, then relating the books to study, invented new designs. Later she learned to make tapestries which were so nice that all the family appreciated them and were happy for her. It was the first time for her to gain any kind of happiness and recognition from working at something after the injury. Then in September, 1996, she opened a fashion shop. Every time there were new beautiful clothes, she would like to try them on first, and then introduce them to the right people. When she saw what was recommended to these individuals look well on them, she would feel very happy and pleased for them. From knitting to selling clothes, everything was fresh for her. Earning a large amount of money was not important, but having something to do that contributed to her life, as well as others was rewarding. In 1997, HouLei entertained the thought, "Why not help children with their English?" Especially since her major was in "Teaching English" at college and she was originally working as an English teacher when injured. She decided to offer and hold an English class.
At first, there were only six children. Communicating with these students, she felt rarely content, the students only paid attention to her teaching and spoken words. Nobody seemed to consider her different from the "so-called abled bodied" person. With this beginning, her teaching became more affective. Through word of mouth, the students increased more and more. Until June of 2000, she had gone from 6 to 200 students. Her income had improved very much, compared to what she had been paid working as a full-time teacher, fashion shop owner, and so forth.
II. Contact on line, making new friends through the unreal world of the Internet.
HouLei's material life was not poor, but the world of her spirit was empty. HouLei always felt she was different from others, such as, taking a walk with others, going out alone to shop or with friends to a film or restaurant. She could only sit in the wheelchair wait for assistance to get around, usually provided by her mother. And very often when they were out, those around her would say, "Why do such people of this kind appear here (Often referencing 'Why do disabled people come out where we have to see them?')?" Before her friends had been more boys than girls, now she had nobody. Yes, there were a couple friends, but not friends for sharing close relationships. Friends that usually visited out of pity. She was eager to communicate with people close to her and contact others to be a part of society. Later she bought a computer to connect with others on-line.When she came home after classes, she sealed herself off from others to the unreal Internet to look for her own world.
The first day, HouLei learned to surf on line. Discovering "Yahoo Clubs" she found a club for "disabled." This provided her an avenue to ask many questions and to accept her own limitations. She wanted to know more about settling her paraplegic situation and how others lived and coped with their lives. Through Internet searches, she came up with over 80,000 web-site addresses regarding spinal cord injuries, individual's lives and general day to day problems and solutions. HouLei, at first could not believe the amount of information available. More than one person could ever read. She decided to pick five individuals from a list provided by a "Yahoo Person Search) with common interests. HouLei chose five individuals to contact; one of them was Charles from California. Through this chance meeting and occasion, HouLei got to know this net friend who calls himself "Charlie." The two of them became quick friends and began to communicate very quickly through the Internet. So, now there was one more friend in HouLei's flat life. Though they could not see each other face to face, they could share their thoughts. Their situations in life were very similar, that is, they were both confined to wheelchairs after an injury. Charlie always enlighten Houlei, he seemed very considerate and humorous. While talking through the Internet, he often joked to her and made up funny topics to talk about. Little by little, they talked congenially. From this time on, besides in her daily so-called real life, Houlei had one more expectation to look forward to: "In that unreal space, on the other side of the world; there was a foreigner friend whose age, older than hers, whose experience more than hers, whose fervency of the life better than hers." What he shared with Houlei, was just like going to school for her. Houlei could learn a lot from him.
Houlei's mood improved after she got the computer and connected on line, also she became more and more convertible. She and Charlie established set times to meet on line, sometimes several times in a day. If there was a day she did not talk to him, it seemed that the life lacked something; and those around her could see this. After a time, it was felt they knew each other as close relatives, and got to know each other more and more. Gradually, Houlei had developed special feelings for Charlie. When the brother knew it, he tried to persuaded her not to care too much. He felt this was a problem for her, "Because things on the Internet were unclear and misleading. If you take this affair too seriously, when you lose it, you will feel a loss. If you do not believe in him from the beginning, and you lose him, you won't be hurt." But Houlei thought, "My life has already been this way, no extravagant hopes for marriage or life. Sure there are a couple of girl-friends, but they only visit once or twice per year. I still nearly live as in a vacuum bag. Only this guy from the Internet talks to me all the time. Even just talking about trivial matters, it brings me warm and intimate feelings, and attracts me to be close to him." In this unreal world Houlei found a release of her feelings, she was tasting true spiritual happiness for the first time since her injury. With this new found happiness she beamed with much satisfaction. Seeing this, her mother asked (with concern for her feelings and desires), "What did Charlie talk to you about?" HouLei answered spoiledly, "You'd better not ask me such things. No matter what, it's something good." Mother could feel her daughter's excitement and cares. And thought to herself in a happy surreptitious way, "She is in another world of her own. A very happy one!"
III. Be head over heels in love��the story which could not happen happened!
One Sunday after Houlei finished communicating with Charlie, she received a very special E-mail. Houlei was very excited to tell her mom shyly, "Charlie proposed to me formally." This was the first person to demonstrate love of any kind for her after the accident. One of Houlei's friends knowing this, realized the matter was getting more serious. She asked, "How much can you trust the sweet words written to you on the Internet? She also advised, "That there are so many people who act as different sexes to play jokes or tease others. You must be sure not to believe too much. He could be unreal. Like many who give themselves a romantic nickname. Who knows if they are male or female?" But Houlei responded with, "There's nothing in my life now, only a computer.
During the day I hold class, think of nothing. But during the night time, it is not a real life that I have to share with the opposite sex my own age as a friend, nor a possible husband. What I feel from him through the Internet has given my life back!" So when Houlei went outside or had contact with others, "She often carried in her heart one person. An individual in a far distant place who cared her, she smiled to herself secretly!" After the time of meeting Charlie on the Internet, since before the accident, expressions of happiness on her face and in her heart were easily seen. She was really in love. During these days, she was very reluctant to leave the Internet, except teaching, She spent most of her time on line everyday. The number of times she typed "Charlie's name each day," could not be counted.
Suddenly one day, the Emails she sent out all disappeared. She tried it the second day, still no messages, the third day, the fourth day..................every day was the same. "Did horrible things have to happen?" Houlei said to herself, "My life will go back to like the past seven years? Or maybe something happened to Charlie?" Everyday she was on pins and needles worrying about Charlie and her future. The family also worried for her, they tried to persuade her, "That alls well, just as in others' words, "people talking through the Internet would disappear after they felt bored. No one would bother another." But Houlei did not give up, eveyday she was at the computer anxiously looking for a message from Charlie. She insisted on turning the computer on at the same time as usual to wait for Charlie's appearence.
On the fifth day, when she turn the computer on, wah! A message which made her so excited showed up. It was from Charlie! He said, "My computer had broke-down and was finally just repaired by a friend." When he saw so many messages from Houlei, he answered back with many E-mails happily! Houlei's heart was set at rest. After the storm of no contact with Charlie, the Hou family returned to normal. One morning, the telephone of Hou family rang. Her mother picked it up, but could not understand the peron on the line. Thinking it was a wrong number, she planned to hang up. Just then, it came to her that HouLei had an American friend through the Internet and called her brother to the phone. What the brother found was, it was really someone speaking English. Houlei hurried to the phone and found it was Charlie. Charlie said, "I remembered your numberand wanted to talk to you. Our time difference is about 15 hours. Here, it is night, and there it is day time, right? I had figured the time difference and thought it was about your time to get up from bed. So I thought I would give you a call." HouLei felt he was a considerate guy. Charlie was afraid that HouLei could not understand his English and spoke very slowly. While talking, Houlei jokingly asked, "Can you sing a song for me?" Charlie then really sang for her, but not very well. However, Houlei felt what he sang was interesting and pleasant to listen to. The telephone broke the quietness of the Hou family. A foreign figure from the other side of the world started to appear in their imagination's. Listening to his voice, he would not look too ugly, Houlei guessed. At the same time, Charlie asked for Houlei's photos. HouLei also shared that her mother wanted photos of him. They exchanged photos and with Charlie's photos, there was a short note:
"Lei, I am watching TV now, but I can not concentrate on it. You are forever in my thoughts and heart. What are you doing now? From when we started to communicate, I have noticed a kind of fresh feeling in my heart. This is the best feeling one can have in the world! It makes me very happy and excited, and sometimes sad. But fills me full of hope for our future. Thank you for staying in my thoughts and heart. You are the most beautiful person ever to touch my heart. Love you always Lei!
Yours forever, Charlie"
Willow Creek, California, USA--Charlie's hometown.
It was October, Charlie and Houlei fell deeper in love.
IV. Romance marriage, respecting the life force which shocked both sides of the ocean.
Charlie thought he should share something with friends, not hide it. Then he went tohis favorite place to socialize, telling his friends that he would be going to China! The friends could not believe it and said, "Right! You are going to China? You can't do that?" Charlie responded with, "Yes, I am. I really love the girl I have been talking about!" Friends stated, "No way! Charlie, it is untrue, you would drop everything you have in America to go to China for an Internet fantasy? Leave your family, friends, that's too crazy!" Charlie said, "I must do this. I must follow my heart." Before leaving, Charlie shared with HouLei the ticket numbers and flight number through Internet -- This is the first scene of this article shown on television. The hero of an Internet love story from America, would go out from the unreal space into a Chinese common family. Because of that, the Hou family had a meeting. It was felt that it was a 50/50 chance that he would come. "We will go to Beijing to meet him. If he does not arrive, we can use the trip as a holiday." For Charlie's arrival, there was much be done. HouLei was always helped by her mother to take care of herself. But Charlie had shared with HouLei about being very independent and the things he did on his own. This made the Hou family take a look at their house and they changed a lot to make things more convenient for a wheelchair to get around. Also, new bedroom furniture was purchased to be used by a person in a chair easier. According to Houlei, "She wanted to change everything from old to new, just like preparing to be a bride and new wife." The whole Hou family was filled with happy longing. On June 4th, 2002, at Beijing Capital Airport, the Hou family waited for the appointed arrival time on their tip-toes with much expectation. While their minds and hearts where filled with thoughts of wonder and expectation, time passed slowly.
At last, the plane expected had arrived! There were many passangers, but there was no Charlie in sight. Worried about this, Houlei tried to ask someone on the plane about her expected guest, "Was there someone in a wheelchair on the plane?" They all said, "They did not notice, so they were unsure. Not sure?" Everyone was anxious now, for someone in a wheelchair should be conspicuous, so they wondered about what does "not sure" mean? They dare not think it over continuely, they all closed their eyes for a moment. Charlie had teased Houlei through the Internet, "May I kiss you?" "No!," HouLei answered, "You can't. This is not Chinese habit." Houlei called to mind and pondered about what Charlie talked to her on the Internet with closing eyes, she expected the words would come true. While waiting with reverence and awe second by second, it made the Hou family mentally and in theirs hearts with torment. While waiting, each of them also imagined a picture of an American in the chair with opened eyes, but the unreal sky was still muddy. Not knowing how much time had past, suddenly an American in a chair appeared slowly and brightened their eyes! When the whole family moved forward to meet him, the words Houlei and Charlie had prepared to say, seemed lost. Only word Charlie said was, "Hello." Houlei's eyes were wet, as if a dream, an unbelievable dream, had come true!" Though the one they planned to meet had already seen, the Hou family had another worry: "Such a big guy, how to serve him? One Houlei was busy enough for everyone. They wondered if they could handle another disabled person in their lives or not?" But after they heard what Charlie had to say, they were all surprised. Charlie said, "Besides coming to China to marry your daughter HouLei, I came to help her become independent." He did not only talk, but also had a plan. "After they got married, they bought a new house immediately and moved to live on their own. They then need not count on the family for everyday assistance." Charlie is just really he said.
After Charlie and Houlei transacted their marriage on June 19th, a reception was held on July 1st, 2000. They moved to their new home within the first year. Before Charlie's coming, Houlei had hoped to be independent, a break from others' taking care of her. To live on her own, but she thought it would be impossible, only a dream. But after they have lived together for around one year, with Charlie's help and "reform", Houlei can really take care of herself.
Because Charlie joined in the classes HouLei teaches, students have increased greatly.
In November, 2000, they set up a private school, "Houlei's English School of Kun Area, Baotou." There are almost 500 students presently and more always looking for new classes to be strated. Houlei has no self-contemptuous feelings for being disabled person. Charlie and she always take walks together through the street themselves, talking and laughing on the way. There are often many people who show respect and praise of their accomplishments. It has filled their hearts with warmth from the sun. Charlie told the reporters, "There is an incogitable power in every disabled individual. As long as you dare to hope, your strength and power could be as big as your dreams. He said, He had applied his personal time and energy to insure the opportunity to contribute to forest fire prevention and work while employed with the USDA, Forest Service. By doing so, it demonstrated to others that 'though there are limitations to what a disabled may do, nothing is impossible." Through contributions of time, many changes have been made to allow access for disabled in many fire camps throughout the United States. Charles' romantic love story and marriage has caused attention by a couple local media sources in is home area. "The Kourier" and "The Hoopa People" newspapers often publish articles about Charlie and Houlei's lives when submitted. Charlie and Houlei are loved by people throughout the Klamath-Trinity Area of Northen California.
There are 7 schools which have exchanged pen pal letters with their school. The purpose of the pen pal letters is to promote friendship and encourage the use of English. This year Charlie has started a new business called "HouLei's Language and Consulting Service Co., Ltd." Through the business it is hoped to encourage more English classes and promote future growth to Baotou economically and socially.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
A thought about understanding....
First, I would like to share with my many friends that I had lived in China for six years. During this time, I had many opportunities for sitting back and listening, as well as voicing my thoughts and feelings as well (I did the latter mostly.).
Being married to my wife, who is Chinese, I have often experienced this comment from her and a few in China, as well as here in the States, "You have no understanding of our culture or ways. What you believe or feel is incorrect."
I find these statements often coming from many who do not accept that what is being felt or said is true, not always. The admittance to others' understanding is more than one is willing to admit and beyond recognition or acceptance.
We as a society need to take a step back, often from our own egos and learn to accept differences in others. But at the same time, respect what one believes to be right is only a difference of understanding!
Being married to my wife, who is Chinese, I have often experienced this comment from her and a few in China, as well as here in the States, "You have no understanding of our culture or ways. What you believe or feel is incorrect."
I find these statements often coming from many who do not accept that what is being felt or said is true, not always. The admittance to others' understanding is more than one is willing to admit and beyond recognition or acceptance.
We as a society need to take a step back, often from our own egos and learn to accept differences in others. But at the same time, respect what one believes to be right is only a difference of understanding!
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Job Training Thought
While listing to the conversation at a recent meeting I heard the following: “What is it the disabled community wants?”
I thought about this question, trying to find a simple way to provide a service that did not eliminate the disabled, but included them throughout the community. I would reword the above question to: “How can one provide a service to benefit every one in a changing social environment that is struggling to provide tools for independent living, even for the non-disabled?”
Most can agree that our economy and opportunity to live independently is going to become more difficult. This is even with the past American with Disabilities Act (ADA) and tax breaks for small businesses suggested by President-elect Obama for hiring and putting people back to work.
The one thing the ADA challenged our country to do was to make accessibility to employment, education and public services easily obtainable. In many ways, this has been proven to be advantageous for many in receiving public services.
It has also made education and employment obtainable through access, but addressing the conditions of comfort in these areas for the disabled (especially those with disabilities that are seen), has not been addressed.
Some examples of conditions that cause uncomfortable settings in my community can be seen in various activities I have tried to participate in. This comes from the organizers and coordinators of the activities/facilities not involving the disabled in the planning of the event/activity. Listing a few situations, though access has been provided:
· Actually, a list is not needed. For it is in the past and working on the future remembering the past from one’s own experiences by being involved is a better solution.
Along the lines of employment, there should be an accelerated program for training that can meet future needs of the community. This program would not be a once or twice a week program, but a program that would meet 4 days a week and offer training that offers an opportunity for the disabled, mothers/fathers of children and laid-off workers needing to be re-trained for new jobs (It needs to be recognized that unemployment and other public welfare is short term – This increases the need for accelerated training opportunities.).
Being considered are opportunities in Accounting (Tax Return Preparation, Payroll Accounting, Accounts Payable/Receivable, General Bookkeeping, Medical Billing/Coding), Small engine repair, Appliance repair, Computer use (Use of various programs such as Excel, Microsoft Word, etc.) and so forth. These training opportunities are not restricted to those listed, just come from what has been looked for in the classifieds for jobs.
In creating the above opportunities, the need for transportation would be addressed if needed to a central location depending on the community the training is offered.
It is believed that funding will be provided for this kind of short-term accelerated training in the near future from the stimulation package being proposed in Congress for getting America back to work. Why can’t this funding be used to improve the lives of low-income disabled and out of work individuals in our area? Even if these training opportunities were not used by individuals for employment, the return to the community for representing awareness and self-esteem will provide benefits for our society long into the future.
Just some thoughts that needs more work- hehe! So, what are the community needs?
Charlie Bean
I thought about this question, trying to find a simple way to provide a service that did not eliminate the disabled, but included them throughout the community. I would reword the above question to: “How can one provide a service to benefit every one in a changing social environment that is struggling to provide tools for independent living, even for the non-disabled?”
Most can agree that our economy and opportunity to live independently is going to become more difficult. This is even with the past American with Disabilities Act (ADA) and tax breaks for small businesses suggested by President-elect Obama for hiring and putting people back to work.
The one thing the ADA challenged our country to do was to make accessibility to employment, education and public services easily obtainable. In many ways, this has been proven to be advantageous for many in receiving public services.
It has also made education and employment obtainable through access, but addressing the conditions of comfort in these areas for the disabled (especially those with disabilities that are seen), has not been addressed.
Some examples of conditions that cause uncomfortable settings in my community can be seen in various activities I have tried to participate in. This comes from the organizers and coordinators of the activities/facilities not involving the disabled in the planning of the event/activity. Listing a few situations, though access has been provided:
· Actually, a list is not needed. For it is in the past and working on the future remembering the past from one’s own experiences by being involved is a better solution.
Along the lines of employment, there should be an accelerated program for training that can meet future needs of the community. This program would not be a once or twice a week program, but a program that would meet 4 days a week and offer training that offers an opportunity for the disabled, mothers/fathers of children and laid-off workers needing to be re-trained for new jobs (It needs to be recognized that unemployment and other public welfare is short term – This increases the need for accelerated training opportunities.).
Being considered are opportunities in Accounting (Tax Return Preparation, Payroll Accounting, Accounts Payable/Receivable, General Bookkeeping, Medical Billing/Coding), Small engine repair, Appliance repair, Computer use (Use of various programs such as Excel, Microsoft Word, etc.) and so forth. These training opportunities are not restricted to those listed, just come from what has been looked for in the classifieds for jobs.
In creating the above opportunities, the need for transportation would be addressed if needed to a central location depending on the community the training is offered.
It is believed that funding will be provided for this kind of short-term accelerated training in the near future from the stimulation package being proposed in Congress for getting America back to work. Why can’t this funding be used to improve the lives of low-income disabled and out of work individuals in our area? Even if these training opportunities were not used by individuals for employment, the return to the community for representing awareness and self-esteem will provide benefits for our society long into the future.
Just some thoughts that needs more work- hehe! So, what are the community needs?
Charlie Bean
Tsunami Warning Communication Test
Tsunami Warning Communication Test!
Wednesday, March 25, 2009, 10:15 – 10:45 AM
What is it?
This test will evaluate the ability to deliver tsunami warning messages to you, the public, through television, radio, and NOAA weather radio. In some populated coastal areas of Humboldt County, tsunami sirens may be tested at the same time.
Why is it important to have a test of the tsunami warning system?
A test of the tsunami warning system ensures that all of the components of the system will work as intended during an actual tsunami emergency. The delivery of warning messages through the Emergency Alert System (EAS) is the focus of this test. If we do not test the system, we will not know for certain that it will work in a real tsunami emergency.
What will happen during the test?
If you are watching television, you may see a message crawl across your screen with the tsunami warning and hear a voice telling you this is a test. If you don’t hear the TV audio for any reason, please remember that this is only a test. Radio broadcasts will be interrupted with a voice announcement of the test, and NOAA Weather Radios with the alert feature will be activated. You may hear a siren in some populated coastal areas of Humboldt County.
What should I do?
• You do NOT need to take any action
• Do NOT call 911 or local authorities
• Do NOT evacuate your home or business.
Some schools and communities in Humboldt County may be practicing their evacuation plans during the test. You will receive additional information about any planned drills in your area.
We encourage your feedback after the test. You can give your comments by following the links online or by telephone at:
www.weather.gov/eureka (707) 443-6484
This is a good opportunity to find out more about preparing for earthquakes, tsunamis or any other disaster on the North Coast. Contact the American Red Cross (Humboldt – (707) 443-4521; Del Norte – (707) 464-2277; Mendocino – (707) 463-0112) for more information on how best to protect yourself and your family. If you have questions about the test, please visit the website or call the phone number listed above.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009, 10:15 – 10:45 AM
What is it?
This test will evaluate the ability to deliver tsunami warning messages to you, the public, through television, radio, and NOAA weather radio. In some populated coastal areas of Humboldt County, tsunami sirens may be tested at the same time.
Why is it important to have a test of the tsunami warning system?
A test of the tsunami warning system ensures that all of the components of the system will work as intended during an actual tsunami emergency. The delivery of warning messages through the Emergency Alert System (EAS) is the focus of this test. If we do not test the system, we will not know for certain that it will work in a real tsunami emergency.
What will happen during the test?
If you are watching television, you may see a message crawl across your screen with the tsunami warning and hear a voice telling you this is a test. If you don’t hear the TV audio for any reason, please remember that this is only a test. Radio broadcasts will be interrupted with a voice announcement of the test, and NOAA Weather Radios with the alert feature will be activated. You may hear a siren in some populated coastal areas of Humboldt County.
What should I do?
• You do NOT need to take any action
• Do NOT call 911 or local authorities
• Do NOT evacuate your home or business.
Some schools and communities in Humboldt County may be practicing their evacuation plans during the test. You will receive additional information about any planned drills in your area.
We encourage your feedback after the test. You can give your comments by following the links online or by telephone at:
www.weather.gov/eureka (707) 443-6484
This is a good opportunity to find out more about preparing for earthquakes, tsunamis or any other disaster on the North Coast. Contact the American Red Cross (Humboldt – (707) 443-4521; Del Norte – (707) 464-2277; Mendocino – (707) 463-0112) for more information on how best to protect yourself and your family. If you have questions about the test, please visit the website or call the phone number listed above.
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Increase in Fuel Tax?
In the past few years, a couple groups have gotten together and talked about raising the gas tax charged. Raise the Federal tax to 50 cents per gallon was one suggestion and another was to raise it 50 percent of what it is currently (18 cents to 27 cents, I believe.).
The State of California has even had this suggested, to raise the State gas tax. This was needed to help with the State's current deficit of 41 billion dollars. Both the Federal and State government branches are hoping something of an increase would allow for more money to be collected in order to pay for infrastructure improvement and public transportation.
I wonder if it would be better to just establish toll gates and the entry-ways of each county. Such as at the north and south end of Hwy. 101 of Humboldt County, on the east side of Humboldt County on Highways 36, 96 and 299 (Of course this would be done throughout the State, and nation for each established County.). Maybe charge $5 per car, $7 per truck and bus, and maybe $3 for the motorcycle.
The money collected would go for paying for the toll gate keepers and a small percentage to the State; leaving the balance to go to the Counties to pay for their individual infrastructure projects and public transportation.
I believe developing toll gates may be a future way of encouraging less transportation on our highways and more use of mass transit. Mass transit, along with new energy sources for future transportations are coming and they need to be used by all. of course, with new methods of energy for our transportation needs, will probably come more taxes, you think?
The State of California has even had this suggested, to raise the State gas tax. This was needed to help with the State's current deficit of 41 billion dollars. Both the Federal and State government branches are hoping something of an increase would allow for more money to be collected in order to pay for infrastructure improvement and public transportation.
I wonder if it would be better to just establish toll gates and the entry-ways of each county. Such as at the north and south end of Hwy. 101 of Humboldt County, on the east side of Humboldt County on Highways 36, 96 and 299 (Of course this would be done throughout the State, and nation for each established County.). Maybe charge $5 per car, $7 per truck and bus, and maybe $3 for the motorcycle.
The money collected would go for paying for the toll gate keepers and a small percentage to the State; leaving the balance to go to the Counties to pay for their individual infrastructure projects and public transportation.
I believe developing toll gates may be a future way of encouraging less transportation on our highways and more use of mass transit. Mass transit, along with new energy sources for future transportations are coming and they need to be used by all. of course, with new methods of energy for our transportation needs, will probably come more taxes, you think?
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